Recently we visited the newly opened Wonders of Wildlife Museum. There’s been plenty of hype about it, and while my sister and her family were in town we decided it could be fun to go. From everything I’d heard, I knew it would be amazing and I wouldn’t be disappointed. But what I didn’t expect was how much Gage enjoyed it! He was mesmerized by everything there was to see. As much as I enjoyed marveling at each exhibit myself, what I really loved about our visit was watching Gage’s reactions. Just listen to that giggle!
It was a great reminder for me to not hinder Gage by my own expectations. Sometimes we get asked to join friends for activities, and my first thought is, “well, my kids won’t really get much out of that.” If I get into the habit of saying no because it takes a little more effort for my family or because Gage can’t participate in the same ways as everyone else, we might miss chances to see the joy he gets from simple things…the wonder that can be found in the ordinary. 
Another take away from that outing was how much more interesting things are when we say yes instead of no. Sure, there might be times we get somewhere and ask ourselves “what were we thinking???” while trying to maneuver a massive stroller or console screaming kids. But is that really so different than experiences of other “typical” families? By saying yes, at least we get to have experiences, good or bad. To me, that is so much better than the alternative—missing out altogether.
I’m forever grateful for the friends that keep inviting us places and including our family. And I’m thankful that in three short years, my sweet boy has taught me some of the most important life lessons I’ve ever learned. I know I’ll learn much more from him as the years go on, as long as I give him the opportunities to teach me.
“Oh Lord, You are my God; I will exalt You, I will give thanks to Your name; For You have worked wonders, Plans formed long ago, with perfect faithfulness.” – Isaiah 25:1